This question is decidedly not of the softball variety, but here goes: By its most charitable definition, dressing up and dressing well is a way of honoring those around you. Putting on a tweed jacket shows you respect others enough to put in some effort as you go out in the world. At the other end of the spectrum, it’s nothing but a status-seeking exercise and searching for the rare, out-of-stock Filson tote or deadstock Japanese denim is just a really advanced and subtle form of status display. So how do you keep yourself mentally on the right side of this spectrum?
Well I think you can tell if somebody genuinely derives pleasure from dressing or tracking down obscure bags or if they do it for other reasons. There’s generally an arc as men get older and they find the right equation for what makes sense for them. But if they’re standing in front of the mirror taking photos of themselves then they haven’t found that equation yet.
Greetings David, I’d love your perspective and opinion for those that appreciate and prioritize proper daily dressing even when working from home. I live in a very small town in Litchfield county CT where there’s still an appreciation for appearances regardless of trade. But for those of us that sometimes never leave the house, is it “silly” to wear a tie, or even a sport coat while trudging through the 9-5 when most remote employees probably prefer sweatpants and crocs?
Important question! I think it's nice to have something you like and wear at home. Could be an elegant cardigan that's seen better days. Or an old pair of Belgians. Or a dressing gown. Destroyed velvet slippers. Something you wouldn't mind wearing if Sam Waterston stops by unannounced.
I absolutely love that... and completely validates my inquiry. Velvet slippers while I read my copy of "The Print Edition" for the 17th time. Sam's popping in all the time so that makes me feel even better. Thank you sir!
Agreed. I’ve been trying something similar lately. On work-from-home days, I make a point to put on something knit. Maybe a cardigan like you mentioned, or a wool sweater from Filson or Quaker Marine. It’s a minor thing, but it noticeably shifts how I approach the day, and even how others seem to engage (teams meetings included).
Well these are some really small towns, like Gaspé, which is charming. And Doaktown (less charming). But I always like a place with a fishing store and a ZEC building.
Hello David, wondering if you've got any recommendations for the Chilean side of Patagonia? Heading out that way next month for to do some fishing and hiking in Coyhaique, Ushuia, and a little time in Argentina for Torres Del Paine.
What has happened to the shirt industry? I guess I know the answer, but DTC shirt guys are selling shirts for $200 and more that come in S,M,L XL – these are not “sports” shirts but many are well constructed dress shirts made with some fantastic material, but forcing us into one of four options is ridiculous. Those sizes don’t fit me properly. Where’s the neck and sleeve length options that we all grew up with? It’s not a just a matter of price but a matter of fit. I get it that many will settle for averages, but I prefer a shirt that fits. Thank goodness for Brooks Brothers, J Press, Gitman and Mercer - I’m sure there are others but those are my go to. Come on Aaron Levine – get with the game and offer us a one of your great looking shirts with a neck and sleeve option. Thoughts?
Well, I'm not sure what to add to that. I look for properly sized shirts on eBay (Ralph Lauren Purple Label and Turnbull & Asser). Drake's just had an archive sale. Sid Mashburn has two great sales a year. So you have to be a bit stealthy and hold out for what you know is right.
Not sure of David’s take on it, but I’ve had great luck ordering shirts from Proper Cloth. I’m an athletic 6'3" with a long torso, and even when I go by neck and sleeve length, off-the-rack shirts never fit me properly.
Why not have a few custom made? Drake's does it, so does J. Mueser (and The Armoury) if you're in New York. Luca Avitabile and 100 Hands both bring a trunk show to New York. If you're in the UK, Jake's London is highly customizable, and Anglo-Italian makes beautiful shirts.
Also, I wouldn't hold your breath about Aaron Levine. A blue-collar "anti-fit" aesthetic is at the core of his approach. Many of his models look like they're trying on clothes for the first time maybe ever. He's probably the last person who'd offer a numeric range of sleeve and collar options.
As always thank you David. My question is when waiting for your bag at the baggage carousel at the airport, which is the best section to wait at? At the beginning or the end of the belt?
Ha! I love this. In Japan they have a line drawn about five feet back from around the carousel so everybody stands behind that. Which is very civilized and Japanese. I usually stand near the door. Let people wait by the entry. Gives me some space and a short walk. But this is very important consideration!
Hi David. In the past you have written about the importance of a gentleman’s having and using fine stationery. Can you recommend an outfit for custom work (letterhead, calling cards, etc.)? Thanks as always for taking the time here.
Hi there, I had mine made at an old place in Venice (ahem). But I don't think you need to be too precious about it. When I moved to New York in the 1990s (!) I went to Tiffany for calling cards. Then I had some from Terrapin Stationers. You can have some made at Smythson. People get paralyzed when they do this as if it's a permanent decision. You just want to it be something you enjoy using and sending to people you like.
I'd like to introduce you to the Alden suede loafer, the most versatile, useful shoe there is. Also just about anything made by Crockett & Jones, particularly The Pembroke.
Awesome, thank you for the opportunity David! Two "quick" questions - Best vintage shops for clothes and accessories on the East Coast? And any recommendations for places to go fly fishing (that aren't the Florida flats) in the southeast U.S.?
Thoroughbred New York (in hard to reach Kingston, NY) is my favorite store. All Ralph Lauren vintage. Just amazing. I would try Beaufort, SC, get in touch with Captain Tuck Scott and go after some redfish. He's a great guide. The town is lovely. Fun trip!
Take a look at Kempt. I believe they have a brick and mortor and they may carry ties... if not I'm confident they'll have some excellent options for groomsmens gifts.
I have an ancient pair of Simms (the most streamlined version they made about 20 years ago). And then I wear modern Patagonia waders most of the time (Swiftcurrent Expedition) very happily.
Hope the week is going well! Been meaning to ask, how is your French? Been following along last couple of years and know of your regular travels to Paris now and while younger with the family. As someone new to practicing French (a trip to Paris a few years back inspired me) I’m curious what your journey with the language has been like. Thanks in advance and cheers!
Bonjour Nicholas! Well it's in a state of disarray. I studied there in college and for a while it was quite serviceable. Now I can manage in a restaurant (which is satisfying) but not in a casual conversation (which is not ideal). Accent is fine. Any complicated tense is a disaster zone, alas.
I generally wear a pair of Patagonia shorts, New Balance shoes, one of the only T-shirts I own and an LVC or Sunspel sweatshirt over that. And then I try to avoid being seen by anybody I know.
Very late, but do you have any thoughts on Kamakura Shirts? Whether it be their dress shirts or other offerings. I am traveling to Kyoto and Singapore and thought about stopping into the store in Kyoto. Thanks!
I haven't had Kamakura shirt--the sizing is complicated and I just haven't gone through the process. Michael Williams is very devoted to them, which is a good endorsement.
Hi Marty, I've spent quite a bit of time there over the years. Great Barrington, Stockbridge. I've always loved it. But I don't have a lot of secret places. I enjoyed the Prairie Whale, but it's been a while.
I have no questions that haven’t been answered before. Just thank you for what you do.
This question is decidedly not of the softball variety, but here goes: By its most charitable definition, dressing up and dressing well is a way of honoring those around you. Putting on a tweed jacket shows you respect others enough to put in some effort as you go out in the world. At the other end of the spectrum, it’s nothing but a status-seeking exercise and searching for the rare, out-of-stock Filson tote or deadstock Japanese denim is just a really advanced and subtle form of status display. So how do you keep yourself mentally on the right side of this spectrum?
Well I think you can tell if somebody genuinely derives pleasure from dressing or tracking down obscure bags or if they do it for other reasons. There’s generally an arc as men get older and they find the right equation for what makes sense for them. But if they’re standing in front of the mirror taking photos of themselves then they haven’t found that equation yet.
Greetings David, I’d love your perspective and opinion for those that appreciate and prioritize proper daily dressing even when working from home. I live in a very small town in Litchfield county CT where there’s still an appreciation for appearances regardless of trade. But for those of us that sometimes never leave the house, is it “silly” to wear a tie, or even a sport coat while trudging through the 9-5 when most remote employees probably prefer sweatpants and crocs?
Important question! I think it's nice to have something you like and wear at home. Could be an elegant cardigan that's seen better days. Or an old pair of Belgians. Or a dressing gown. Destroyed velvet slippers. Something you wouldn't mind wearing if Sam Waterston stops by unannounced.
I absolutely love that... and completely validates my inquiry. Velvet slippers while I read my copy of "The Print Edition" for the 17th time. Sam's popping in all the time so that makes me feel even better. Thank you sir!
Agreed. I’ve been trying something similar lately. On work-from-home days, I make a point to put on something knit. Maybe a cardigan like you mentioned, or a wool sweater from Filson or Quaker Marine. It’s a minor thing, but it noticeably shifts how I approach the day, and even how others seem to engage (teams meetings included).
David,
Is there a town in Eastern Canada that you enjoy returning to during your fishing escapades? Cheers
Well these are some really small towns, like Gaspé, which is charming. And Doaktown (less charming). But I always like a place with a fishing store and a ZEC building.
Yes! Gasps. Its been on my list for 10 years. Thanks David.
Hello David, wondering if you've got any recommendations for the Chilean side of Patagonia? Heading out that way next month for to do some fishing and hiking in Coyhaique, Ushuia, and a little time in Argentina for Torres Del Paine.
Oh nice. I fished in Chile once years ago. But most of my experience has been in Argentina. Sure it will be great. Enjoy!
What has happened to the shirt industry? I guess I know the answer, but DTC shirt guys are selling shirts for $200 and more that come in S,M,L XL – these are not “sports” shirts but many are well constructed dress shirts made with some fantastic material, but forcing us into one of four options is ridiculous. Those sizes don’t fit me properly. Where’s the neck and sleeve length options that we all grew up with? It’s not a just a matter of price but a matter of fit. I get it that many will settle for averages, but I prefer a shirt that fits. Thank goodness for Brooks Brothers, J Press, Gitman and Mercer - I’m sure there are others but those are my go to. Come on Aaron Levine – get with the game and offer us a one of your great looking shirts with a neck and sleeve option. Thoughts?
Well, I'm not sure what to add to that. I look for properly sized shirts on eBay (Ralph Lauren Purple Label and Turnbull & Asser). Drake's just had an archive sale. Sid Mashburn has two great sales a year. So you have to be a bit stealthy and hold out for what you know is right.
Not sure of David’s take on it, but I’ve had great luck ordering shirts from Proper Cloth. I’m an athletic 6'3" with a long torso, and even when I go by neck and sleeve length, off-the-rack shirts never fit me properly.
Why not have a few custom made? Drake's does it, so does J. Mueser (and The Armoury) if you're in New York. Luca Avitabile and 100 Hands both bring a trunk show to New York. If you're in the UK, Jake's London is highly customizable, and Anglo-Italian makes beautiful shirts.
Also, I wouldn't hold your breath about Aaron Levine. A blue-collar "anti-fit" aesthetic is at the core of his approach. Many of his models look like they're trying on clothes for the first time maybe ever. He's probably the last person who'd offer a numeric range of sleeve and collar options.
As always thank you David. My question is when waiting for your bag at the baggage carousel at the airport, which is the best section to wait at? At the beginning or the end of the belt?
Ha! I love this. In Japan they have a line drawn about five feet back from around the carousel so everybody stands behind that. Which is very civilized and Japanese. I usually stand near the door. Let people wait by the entry. Gives me some space and a short walk. But this is very important consideration!
Hi David. In the past you have written about the importance of a gentleman’s having and using fine stationery. Can you recommend an outfit for custom work (letterhead, calling cards, etc.)? Thanks as always for taking the time here.
Hi there, I had mine made at an old place in Venice (ahem). But I don't think you need to be too precious about it. When I moved to New York in the 1990s (!) I went to Tiffany for calling cards. Then I had some from Terrapin Stationers. You can have some made at Smythson. People get paralyzed when they do this as if it's a permanent decision. You just want to it be something you enjoy using and sending to people you like.
What is a good, brown shoe or loafer that can be worn everyday?
I'd like to introduce you to the Alden suede loafer, the most versatile, useful shoe there is. Also just about anything made by Crockett & Jones, particularly The Pembroke.
Awesome, thank you for the opportunity David! Two "quick" questions - Best vintage shops for clothes and accessories on the East Coast? And any recommendations for places to go fly fishing (that aren't the Florida flats) in the southeast U.S.?
Thoroughbred New York (in hard to reach Kingston, NY) is my favorite store. All Ralph Lauren vintage. Just amazing. I would try Beaufort, SC, get in touch with Captain Tuck Scott and go after some redfish. He's a great guide. The town is lovely. Fun trip!
Do you know any good menswear stores in Dublin? I’m doing my bachelor party there and had the idea of getting ties for the groomsmen during the trip.
As always, thanks for doing this!
Hi there, sorry I don't know the scene in Dublin, wish I did. Report back! Congratulations.
I second Louis Copeland!
Try Louis Copeland and Sons on Pembroke Street Lower
There’s a little shop in powerscourt townhouse that only carries gloves, ties and some other accessories. Might be worth a look.
This may not be what you're looking for but Dublin may not have a lot to offer other than L. Copeland.
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Take a look at Kempt. I believe they have a brick and mortor and they may carry ties... if not I'm confident they'll have some excellent options for groomsmens gifts.
You have probably already discussed this, but which waders do you prefer for trout fishing in normal conditions?
I have an ancient pair of Simms (the most streamlined version they made about 20 years ago). And then I wear modern Patagonia waders most of the time (Swiftcurrent Expedition) very happily.
Hope the week is going well! Been meaning to ask, how is your French? Been following along last couple of years and know of your regular travels to Paris now and while younger with the family. As someone new to practicing French (a trip to Paris a few years back inspired me) I’m curious what your journey with the language has been like. Thanks in advance and cheers!
Bonjour Nicholas! Well it's in a state of disarray. I studied there in college and for a while it was quite serviceable. Now I can manage in a restaurant (which is satisfying) but not in a casual conversation (which is not ideal). Accent is fine. Any complicated tense is a disaster zone, alas.
But I think it's great to learn a language as we get older. Well done!
Gives me comfort now as I stumble through. Thanks as always!
Hey David!
I don’t know if you run or strength train. But I was wondering what you think one should wear while doing so!
I generally wear a pair of Patagonia shorts, New Balance shoes, one of the only T-shirts I own and an LVC or Sunspel sweatshirt over that. And then I try to avoid being seen by anybody I know.
Very late, but do you have any thoughts on Kamakura Shirts? Whether it be their dress shirts or other offerings. I am traveling to Kyoto and Singapore and thought about stopping into the store in Kyoto. Thanks!
I haven't had Kamakura shirt--the sizing is complicated and I just haven't gone through the process. Michael Williams is very devoted to them, which is a good endorsement.
Morning Dave! Ever spend any time in the Berkshires? If so, any standout things? Thanks!
Hi Marty, I've spent quite a bit of time there over the years. Great Barrington, Stockbridge. I've always loved it. But I don't have a lot of secret places. I enjoyed the Prairie Whale, but it's been a while.